it was something else entirely.
I moved into a smaller apartment above a laundromat in Buffalo.
I kept my job at a neighborhood diner, where I worked early mornings serving coffee and late evenings cleaning tables.
My manager, Nadine, noticed the pregnancy before I told her.
One evening, she found me sitting in the storage room with my shoes off, massaging my swollen feet.
“You need to go home,” she said.
“I need the extra hours.”
She crouched beside me.
“You also need to be able to stand up tomorrow.”
Nadine was the first person who offered to help without making me feel ashamed.
She brought me containers of soup, helped carry a secondhand crib upstairs, and occasionally slipped an extra meal into my bag at closing time.
But she had a father recovering from surgery out of town, and I knew she couldn’t put her entire life on hold for me.
So I learned to manage.
I watched videos about breastfeeding, read pamphlets from my prenatal clinic, and practiced folding impossibly small baby clothes.
Some nights I sat beside the empty crib and talked to the child growing inside me.
“I don’t know everything yet,” I whispered.
“But we’ll learn together.”
By the beginning of November, I had saved enough for a car seat, two weeks of basic expenses, and a small emergency fund.
It wasn’t much.
But it was ours.
Then, at 4:12 on a freezing Tuesday morning, I woke with a contraction so strong that I gripped the side of my mattress.
My due date was still ahead of me.
I had expected another week to prepare.
Instead, I found myself counting contractions on my cracked phone while snow tapped against the apartment window.
At 5:06, I called the hospital.
At 6:20, I carried my faded suitcase downstairs and climbed into a rideshare vehicle.
The driver was a kind older woman who kept glancing at me in the rearview mirror.
“First baby?” she asked.
I nodded.
“You got somebody meeting you there?”
I looked at the passing streetlights.
“Not yet.”
It wasn’t exactly a lie.
I had not asked anyone to come.
At St.
Catherine’s Hospital, a receptionist checked my identification and asked for my emergency contact.
I gave her Nadine’s number.
Then came the question I had learned to dread.
“Will the baby’s father be joining you?”
“He’s working,” I said.
The receptionist smiled sympathetically and continued typing.
I hated myself for lying, but I couldn’t bear another stranger looking at me with pity.
The nurses were gentle and practical.
They helped me breathe through contractions, adjusted pillows, and reassured me whenever I became frightened.
Still, there were moments when the loneliness felt unbearable.
At one point, a woman in the next room laughed because her husband had arrived carrying the wrong hospital bag.
I heard him apologize through the thin wall.
Then I heard her laugh again.
I turned my face toward the window.
I wasn’t jealous of their happiness.
I just wanted someone who knew me to say my name.
The hours passed slowly.
By early afternoon, my arms were trembling from gripping the bedrails.
A nurse named Priya wiped my forehead with a cool cloth.
“You’re doing beautifully, Tessa.
Your baby’s almost here.”
“Is he okay?”
“His heartbeat looks reassuring.
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